Red Flag: Non-marriage material men ladies should to avoid.
Women go on a lot of bad dates before they find “the one,” and sometimes the burning desire for a soulmate is enough to lead us astray.
This serves as a reminder to know your worth and never settle for anything less. However, navigating all of the red flags in the dating world to find a man who treats you well can be challenging.
Some men are perfectly content to date for years but will not take the risk of proposing, even if you’re perfect wife material. Here are all the non-marriage material men to avoid.
1.The clubbing enthusiast
You should probably avoid dating DJs as well. These guys suffer from “Peter Pan Syndrome,” or a lack of desire to mature and become adults.
They only want to party and not think about their future. Being with the life of the party can be appealing, but it may be more practical to date someone who considers the future rather than just the present.
2. The man with a plethora of exes
This does not necessarily imply that he is a good catch. In fact, it could imply the inverse. Even though we’ve all had previous relationships, if he has more exes than you can count, it’s a red flag that he’s not the most committed person.
While people can change, there’s usually a common denominator here that should serve as a red flag, whether it’s that he’s a commitment-phobe or a cheater. You should also avoid him if he is still in love with his ex.
3. The man who enjoys going to strip joints
Unless you’re completely fine with it or you enjoy going to strip clubs with him (we’re not judging), a man who wants to spend time away from you to see women undress is probably not the best hubby material.
Regular strip club patrons are more concerned with spending their money on pretty girls than with you.
4. He refuses to discuss the relationship
If he becomes uncomfortable or avoids discussing the future of the relationship or working through conflict, it is likely that he still wishes to be single or hasn’t fully discovered his identity.
Allowing him to refuse to discuss the relationship gives him control and sends the message that he can live the life he wants without making any sacrifices or compromises.
5. The man who refuses to invite you out
If a guy believes you’ll be in his life long enough to marry, he’ll be eager to show you off to the rest of the world, including his friends and family.
Wanting your own space is fine, but if he avoids introducing you or taking you out to parties, it means he’s hiding you, and you deserve better. Cheating or simply wanting to hang out with his bros without you all the time is not a good sign.
6. The man with wanderlust
A man who is constantly looking to travel can be appealing, but if you do not want to live that lifestyle or have a job that requires you to stay in one place, the relationship may not work out.
An addiction to travel usually indicates a lack of desire to settle down. Can he truly commit to one partner for the rest of his life if he can’t commit to one place?
7. A workaholic man
Being passionate about your job isn’t a bad thing, but when you prioritize it over everything else in your life, especially a relationship, that hardworking attitude can turn obsessive.
If bae is constantly thinking about his career and is constantly on his phone or computer working, he is probably more invested in his career than in a future with you.
8. Mama’s boy
We all love our mothers, so treating her is obviously important. However, if his relationship with you is beginning to suffer as a result of his mother’s boy mentality, this is a red flag.
Especially if he goes to her first for almost everything. If you date a man who has an unhealthy relationship with his mother and is a pushover with her, he will always choose her over you.
9. A perfectionist
Control freaks are common among perfectionists. They are meticulous not only about their housing, food, clothing, and routine, but also about their partners.
We are all human with flaws, so having a partner who doesn’t understand that basic fact will ensure you are not respected. He may still be wondering if his ideal woman exists or if he will have to settle for you.
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Red Flag: Non-marriage material men ladies should to avoid.
